Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue... Some mysterious laws make us remember and follow all traditions when this most awaited, yet a bit (let's be honest) dreadful day is looming up close – your wedding day. Yeah, right, you'll say that "it is the happiest day of my life", but only after all the guests are gone .

Still, you can and should enjoy it because such days don't happen twice ( well, they shouldn't ). The key word here is planning, planning, and planning. It's all about the little things. What's the first thing that comes to your mind? A wedding gown – that's a big thing. It has to be perfect, the most beautiful dress in the world, at the very least. Once you find it, grab it and cherish it, but you aren't done yet.
It's time to think about a dainty string of pearls, or a classic bangle bracelet, or sparkling earrings. About some little thing or a few that will make you a queen.

What's the second big thing that comes to your mind when you think about your wedding? Your sweetheart? Nope. The cake. The ultimate cake ever. The choice here is so great that it can even become a problem, especially for such an indecisive person like me. But what I know for sure is that my wedding cake will be a small giant . It will have several layers, but nothing garish or extreme. Just a simple floral ornament and a ribbon secured with a crystal brooch over the top layer.

So, it seems you're ready now to walk down the aisle in a church filled with family and friends. Is the wedding march giving you shivers already? And you fear your mirage, sorry, marriage will become an illusion ?

That's enough, I think. Now seriously, all silly jokes aside, your wedding day is a day when your heart finds a home – that's the biggest thing of all. Can there be anything more powerful, longed for and treasured than these words: "With this ring I thee wed, with my body I thee worship, and with all my worldly goods I thee endow"? Nothing.

My Grandma's jewel box works miracles, especially now in summer . No matter if I'm going to a party, a wedding, or even a job interview, or simply go out with friends, I can always find something ... right. I just add a string of pearls or vintage mother of pearl clip earrings, and I'm ready to go.

That's what I love about pearls and mother of pearl jewellery – their universality. Either you're wearing a business suit or a party dress, your everyday jeans and t-shirt, and if you have a shell bracelet, a brooch, or a pearl ring, do wear it. It will match any style and bring out a little femininity and class. The only thing I'd recommend – if you want to concentrate the focus on the accessory itself, wear a simple dress or something with plain fabrics and design. It will be ideal for wearing shell and mother of pearl jewellery, well for wearing any jewellery.

However, when it comes to choosing what jewellery to wear for a certain occasion, it mainly depends on your preferences, and if I may say so, on your talent of combining what colour, how many items and what design will be the perfect match for the event. One thing I always keep in mind while making a choice is that your character and style go together. If you're a romantic person, choose jewellery accordingly. A mother of pearl pin or brooch in the form of a dragonfly or a shell necklace will make an elegant touch to finish your outfit and will create the right mood for a summer evening stroll. If you're an active person, a massive pearl ring or rows of pearls arranged in a choker or rope with shades of black, caramel cream or pink will set the pace for the whole day.

So, whether it will be something in a Byzantine style or graphic minimalism, classic or vintage, my advice for you this summer – follow the basics, but break a few rules and experiment . As Coco Chanel once said about colour, I will rephrase her words and say about jewellery: "The best jewellery in the whole world is the one that looks good on you!"

My congratulations to all fashionistas with the budget! Big and fake jewellery is in again!!!
But something like the pieces of work by Coco Chanel never did and never will go out of fashion.

Who was Coco, this magnificent woman? Before launching her fashion empire, Chanel was a lounge and cafe singer from 1905 to 1908. She adopted the name "Coco" during this short-lived career as a performer and entertainer. The rumor has it; she tried to become a famous singer, but could not succeed and decided to not persevere in something she could not be the best. And she was right - special people deserve only the best things in life. Like pearls!

Just check and you will see that on most of the pictures of Gabrielle Bonheur Chanel she wears… pearls. Why not diamonds? She could definitely afford them… but, Coco always used to say that jewellery should be worn to decorate rather than to expose wealth. She was convinced that too much money killed luxury. (To be honest, it took more than just one Vogue magazine to convince me... I still do prefer real stones, but have a few absolutely gorgeous jewellery pieces now. Wooden, or with elements of enamel are my top choice.)

But let us come back to Chanel. Coco Chanel was one of the first designers who started to work with imitative jewellery on the radically new terms. Although there had been a market for the costume jewellery before her, it had been primarily reserved for those who could not afford buying the real luxury. Chanel brought the imitation to the state of art. Her simple dress designs and plain fabrics she used, were ideal for wearing jewellery. She was the first designer to gain the social acceptability of wearing fake jewels.

Chanel’s inspiration for creating her jewellery was widely diverse. Being Russian myself I am very proud that the Romanov jewels given to her by the Grand Duke Dimitri of Russia, gave her ideas to create long gilt chains with Baroque crosses.

Chanel loved creating jewellery with artificial pearls. In her younger years pearls had been one of the most precious stones, and the privilege of aristocracy. In her designs Coco Chanel made her costume jewellery pearls emphatically bigger and in other colours than natural. Her pearl jewellery consisting of rows of pearls arranged in chokers, brooches and pendants, became classics.

Coco Chanel used to mix genuine pearls with rope after rope of fake pearl necklaces. Wearing the real thing Coco was known to add a strand or two of fake pearls making it seem as though she was wearing lots and lots of genuine pearls. As she wore "opera length" pearl necklaces, the effect was stunning.

I love pearls myself and have a set (bracelet, earrings, pendant and necklace) made of artificially grown (cultured) pearls and surprisingly still have 10 years guarantee! I had them for about 5 years now and no sign of ageing has appeared yet. Now, I am going for a birthday party tomorrow and going to wear a long pearl necklace with a black dress… sure, Chanel would like it!